I asked a bunch of friends for guest posts a little while back, something about sex or relationships, and guess what I found in my inbox today? A sexy post indeed from non other than reader favorite, PoppyLox of “My Former Lover Interviewed… AMWF / Interracial“. It’s a hot one……
What I Love About Giving Head
I am one of those women who truly enjoys sucking cock for the special man in my life. I have been told that this is not necessarily a common thing to find in a woman and have been met with surprise and sometimes disbelief when I profess my preference for giving a nice thorough polish to my lover’s knob.
Most portrayals in porn emphasize the man’s position of power when a woman is going down on him. He can grab her hair, control the depth of penetration, have the entire act be all about him and his pleasure. I find this to be a rather inaccurate portrayal. Think about it, I’ve got your cock in my mouth. You are the vulnerable partner. You are trusting me to not bite, scrape, or otherwise painfully abuse your lovely delicate man bits (unless you are into that, which is totally cool). I have the control, and if I do my job right, I can make you ride waves of ecstasy for as long as I want before I bring you to a sweet and salty climax.
My current partner does (did) not particularly care for blow jobs. I was patient though and as we grew into each other’s kinks and preferences, he let me pleasure him more and more often with my tongue and sweet saliva lube. He has since become a big fan of oral sex and will actually specifically request oral. I find this immensely gratifying. A tight pussy is a great anatomical blessing that one has little control over, but dare I say, good oral delivery takes some practice and dedication to perfect, but any lover with a will and desire can do it.
I will admit to taking a certain modicum of pride in being able to make my man squirm and buck with pleasure, to getting him swollen thick and rock solid, to making him cum so hard his ejaculate actually splatters the roof of my mouth. It gets me ready to ride to see him losing control over some well-timed flicking with my tongue and caressing with my lips
To have the ability to give someone such pleasure is incredibly empowering to me and makes me feel like the sexiest beast alive.
That is what I love about giving head.