Let’s talk sex! I am going to be a little adult themed here, so yeah, consider yourself warned about the mature content
Now that we got the kids out of the room, I wanted to share something I did that was insanely hot and led to some fulfillment that I didn’t ever think would happen. Let me ask, is there anything that you think about regularly when you get off – something maybe you’ve never done, or talked about, but think is exciting? I can’t tell even begin to tell you the train of twisted shit that goes through my mind. But I can try through this blog.
Anyway my lover then was very sexual and open minded. She knew what she liked and didn’t like, and she liked saying yes (sir), so we were good. The sex was hot and constant, and I kept thinking I wanted to know if she had some really dirty turn ons in the closet. So this is what we did. A confidential mutual sex questionaire that you should try. Just doing the quiz with my lover took two hours longer than planned.
The Questions. “How to hide your dirty underwear in a pile of dirty underwear.”
So I wrote a questionaire for us to do together. If we both wanted to answer one, we took turns going first to answer. If either wanted to skip, we both passed the question.
This fun little questionaire is for us to have more fun and know each other better. You can answer incompletely or pass. There are no trick questions and no wrong answers. I am an eager partner and not judgemental . Sex, with the right person is a good place to explore. It doesn’t matter to me if what turns you on is pretending I’m someone else, strange, something I can’t provide, or illegal in 48 states. I just want you to cum harder. It’s only for us.
1. What might you like more of during sex?
2. What might you like less of during sex?
3. What positions tend to make you cum faster / slower?
4. Rate yourself 1 – 10, 1 indicates exclusively heterosexual, 10 indicates exclusively homosexual, 5 is bisexual without preference.
5. Does it turn you on to have your partner wear anything during sex? If yes, what? Ideally, how often would you want your partner to do so? Do you want to request it?
6. What do women/men wear (out of the bedroom) that turns you on?
7. Do you enjoy BDSM? If so, how often and what aspects or acts? Top, bottom, or switch?
8. On average how much foreplay is best? Do you ever want to fuck outright?
9. How do and don’t you like to get your oral?
10. What do you like or dislike your partner to do when you’re giving oral?
11. What kind of toys do you like and how do you like them used on you? On your partner?
12. Role play, do you like it and what are some fantasies? Which of them would you do in real life?
13. Ménage a trois? Quatre? More? What genders of the partners?
14. Do you enjoy loud sex? Talky sex? Dirty talk? What turns you on or off?
15. Do you like to lead or be led or both?
16. Do you like spanking, hair pulling, being handled roughly, or lightly choked during sex? Do you like doing those to your partner? If yes, when and how much?
17. Do you like ass play? Full penetration? Partial one finger penetration? Plug? Rim? How often? Do you prefer to request it.
18. Are there things you always like your partner to do?
19. Where do you like your partner to cum?
20. Do you have any atypical erogenous areas?
21. Do you have fetishes or light fetishes?
22. How often do you prefer hard pounding sex to tender sex? Do you like clit contact during sex? With hips or fingers? How hard should the contact be before, during and after?
23. Is there anything you like your partner to do right before you cum or as you are cumming?
24. What turns you off during sex or foreplay?
25. Do you like teasing? Tickling?
26. When do you prefer to stop? 2 hours? 5 orgasms?
27. Do you sometimes enjoy sexual humiliation on either side?
28. Do you enjoy squirting?
29. What do you think about when you get off by yourself? What else?
30. What kind of demeanor or mannerisms turn you on, in and out of the bedroom?
31. How do you like your handjobs or fingering?
32. Construct a hot scenario.
33. Does race play turn you on? If so, what specifically?
34. Does age play turn you on? If so, what specifically?
What questions would you add?