(There is Mature Content ahead.)
Guys – Consider the Older Intelligent Woman
I have a sexual attraction to intelligence (among too many other things), and I have always thought of it as a personality preference. No no, like everything else that’s fun in me, they call it a disorder. Sapiophlia?
Fine. Whatever. Add it to the list, buddy. I started including smart older women in my dating pool, and it has been awesome. Here are my favorite things about dating intelligent women who are on the high end of my dateable age range:
(1) I have a penchant for talkative women. Non-stop motor mouth, women who stream thought, are very sexy. I don’t know why. If a woman is explaining something to me excitedly, I get turned on. And It’s a major plus in bed.
(2) The sex gets better over time faster. It’s not a blanket statement, but ladies in their 30s and 40s tend to be less inhibited or self conscious which is something I’m like. I also like (1) above. Moreover, there’s an intuitive intelligence that responds and learns from your partner. It makes sense that an intelligent partner finds your kinks and quirks, or gets to them sooner. Finally, most people in their 30s & 40s know what they like sexually and what they don’t like, so you won’t be left guessing.
(3) Independent. This might not be a plus for you, but I like it when partners lead independent interesting lives. need time on my own. A lot of older educated women have great jobs, friends, and hobbies. No one is expecting you to be Mr. Everyone for Everything.